Urmila Matondkar, one of Bollywood’s most graceful actresses, believes that Diwali is not just about lights and sweets — it’s about spiritual awakening and inner joy. As the festival of lights approaches, Urmila shares how she celebrates the occasion, from her love for traditional snacks to her fond childhood memories.
Diwali: A Festival of Light and Renewal
For Urmila, Diwali is a time to unwind and reconnect with joy.
“Diwali is my official ‘let-go’ time of the year,” she says with a smile. “I indulge completely in Diwali snacks like chivda, laddoos, and my all-time favorite — anarsa! The festival is all about light — it fills every corner of life with happiness and energy.”
She adds, “Spiritually, Diwali means lighting yourself up from within. Like in Buddhism — Appo Deepo Bhava, which means be a light unto yourself. It’s about letting go of darkness, welcoming wisdom, and showing gratitude to the universe for all its blessings.”
Following Traditions With a Personal Touch
Urmila enjoys every part of the festival’s rituals, especially Laxmi Puja in the evening.
“Our puja is detailed and beautifully decorated,” she shares. “However, one thing I’ve never been able to do is play cards with money during Diwali — it’s simply not part of our Maharashtrian tradition.”
She fondly recalls a Diwali she spent on a film set. “My most memorable Diwali was during the shoot of Dillagi with Sunny and Bobby Deol. The food was amazing, the mood was festive, and we all had so much fun,” she says.
Urmila’s Love for Traditional Fashion
Known for her iconic dance numbers and timeless style, Urmila says she goes fully traditional during the festive season.
“I’m an absolute fan of ethnic wear,” she shares. “From songs like Chamma Chamma and Sabki Baaratein Aayi to the movie Khoobsurat, I’ve worn the heaviest lehengas and jewellery without losing energy on screen. That’s my tribute to Indian tradition.”
She adds, “Normally, my style is minimalistic, but during Diwali, I love going all out — saris, temple jewellery, and bright lehengas. Indian jewellery, in my opinion, is among the finest in the world.”
Childhood Diwali Memories
Reminiscing about her childhood, the Rangeela star says Diwali used to feel magical.
“We would wake up early, apply ubtan and oil, and break a bitter fruit called Chirata with our heel to drive away negativity. Then we’d light diyas, perform puja, and enjoy Diwali faral with the family,” Urmila recalls.
“Fireworks were fun too, but only the gentle ones — fuljhadis and anars. The only trouble? Diwali homework! We’d always leave it till the last day,” she laughs.
Celebrating a Peaceful Diwali With Her Pets
An animal lover at heart, Urmila avoids loud fireworks to protect her pets.
“My dogs are my family,” she says softly. “Sadly, firecrackers terrify them. So, in recent years, I’ve started celebrating Diwali at my farmhouse. It’s peaceful, my dogs are calm, and the surroundings feel pure. For me, that’s what true Diwali is — peace, light, and love.”
A Message From Urmila
“Diwali isn’t only about lighting diyas around you — it’s about igniting joy and light within yourself,” she concludes. “Celebrate with gratitude, compassion, and a big smile.”
